Do people want to hear a certain answer or the truth?

if you dont have good communication with the man/woman you care about then thats a big problem that has to be resolved. trust would rank right up there too. if someone says to you hey im a jerk or im not interested etc, etc, believe them and move on. this will save you time and heartache, so move on to where you want to be. there is good advice on here that will save you both the time and heartache but dont look for the most simple answer or what you want to hear. sometimes what your parents or people older than you have to say is the TRUTH.